No matter how old we get, we are still our parents’ children, and discussing difficult topics can be challenging.
One such topic is making decisions with your parents about their care needs as they age.
Whatever the situation, talking to your parents about aged care can be a tricky topic to navigate.
Here are some tips from TriCare Aged Care Residences on how to start the conversation.
* Raising the topic early is crucial to avoid rushed choices, limited options, and emotional distress. Broaching the subject may be a simple as asking your parents to envision their future needs and preferences.
* Listening to their concerns is vital. Take note of any worries they express and address them honestly. Any fears should be addressed honestly for a future transition to be successful and comfortable.
* Explore all options. Can they remain in their home, or would residential care be best? Do they want to remain in their local community or are they open to a move closer to you? Do they know anyone
who has made the move to an aged care residence? What was their experience?
* Have your parents talk to their doctor about what their needs might be in the future. Navigating aged care options can seem overwhelming, so it pays to consult the experts. GPs and specialists can
recommend services and even specific providers that they have previously had great experiences with for their other patients.
* Maintain the dignity. While reluctance to have the conversation can be a difficult situation to navigate with your parents, it’s important that you can still inform while not imposing on their
boundaries. It might be that you can simply provide them a brochure or put them in touch with someone you know that has gone through this process.
By initiating early discussions, actively listening, exploring options together, seeking professional guidance, and maintaining dignity, you can navigate the aged care conversation with care and understanding.
